In May, 1994, Bonnie joined Jay in Hawaii for a five day vacation. They had a great time!
The genesis of the trip began a year earlier. Then Jay was serving as the Commander of the United States Army Training Support Center at Fort Eustis. And by his job title, he was the training support expert of the United States Army: Training manuals, simulators, training devices such as training mines, training ammunition, and training ranges. USATC also ran the Army's corresponding studies program, and had a building/warehouse with its own ZIP Code.
Now return to a year earlier, May 1993. The U.S. Army Training and Doctrine Command (TRADOC) was conducting a training assistance visit to army units in Hawaii and Korea, and Jay joined this team for the visits. The first visit was to Korea, and the second visit was to Hawaii. The timing of the visits and the effect of crossing the international dateline resulted in Jay standing on Waikiki Beach at 6:30 AM on Saturday morning, looking at the waves and wondering how to spend the weekend.
In 1994, the same staff assistance visit was planned, with Jay also participating, and at 6:30 AM on Waikiki Beach, following the Korean inspection, Jay knew exactly what to do. He traveled to the international airport and picked up Bonnie who had flown in to Hawaii for a five day visit. (Jay took some leave time.)
This was not Jay and Bonnie's first visit to Hawaii; they had met there for a brief visit when Jay, who was serving in Vietnam, was allowed a mid-tour R&R. For that visit, Bonnie had booked a room at the Rainbow Towers of the Hilton Hawaiian Village on Waikiki Beach. For the May 1994 get together, Bonnie had again booked a room at the Hilton Hawaiian Village, asking for the same room that they had shared during Jay's R&R visit and also at the same rate that they had paid more than 25 years before. Well, she got a good rate, but not the same rate; but did get the same room. Again, they spent some wonderful times together.